If your grown child posted pictures of you with your ex husband(and themselves as a baby) whom you didnt like and have been divorced from for 10 years, would you ask them to take them off of facebook or crop them out of pictures?

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My mother started dating a man about 2 years ago. Theyre engaged but for my moms birthday i posted a bunch of photos and one of them was a baby photo with myself, my mother and my father. They have been divorced for 10 years and are both engaged to be married. But her current fiance wants me to take the photo down or crop my dad out because it makes him sad. Am i wrong for thinking its insensitive for him to ask that?! I mean i get its his fiancees ex husband but my parents had 2 kids together and it was posted on my facebook. He wants me to never post pictures of my dad is basically what it ended up being. He doesnt care if my mom is in them or not. Im so irritated right now.

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Her current fiancé is nuts...those are YOUR parents and you can post all the pics you want. What an insecure prick

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That’s wrong of him to ask you to take them down. If it makes him sad then he doesn’t have to look at them. That your life your parents and you as a baby. I would imagine that is a very sentimental picture to you and he has no right to ask you to delete it.

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That's way out of line for him to ask. Really highlights how insecure and immature he is. Gross. I'd just ignore his request and maybe let your mom know how out of line you felt it was of him to even say anything.

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He’s your dad and that’s that! End of story

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tell him if he doesn’t like it he can unfollow you it’s that easy. he needs to take a step back, how ridiculous of him. i’d be pissed tbh

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Agreed with all others.  What the heck, weirdo

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I’d tell him to kick rocks.

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So your mom is engaged to a 13 year old?? He needs to grow the fuck up. I honestly wouldn’t even entertain that kinda nonsense.

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He’s your dad, the decision is yours to make not some stranger to you.

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Her fiancé needs to get over himself and fuck off. That is your father. Whether your mom and dad have a good relationship now or not, that is YOUR parent and you have every right to post whatever photos you want. He’s insecure and needs to accept the fact that your mom was with someone before him and helped create you. Like you literally wouldn’t be here if it were for him. Your moms fiancé can fuck off tbh.

If your grown child posted pictures of you with your ex husband(and themselves as a baby) whom you didnt like and have been divorced from for 10 years, would you ask them to take them off of facebook or crop them out of pictures?

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