How do you get over insecurities?

Question

Please no negativity, I get enough from my husband. 
But, really how do you get over it? I know it’s not a very good thing to be but, I can’t help it. My husbands constantly throwing it in my face. I’ve tried working on myself and he just makes me feel even worse about it. Anyone else deal with this? I was never insecure before my babies. I love them beyond everything and well my body is another thing. I gained 70 pounds since being with him. I don’t feel enough for him anymore, I don’t feel attractive. I feel like I’m losing my mind over this. 😔

Answer

If your husband loves you then he will hear you say your struggling and comfort you, if not you really need to consider moving on. 70lbs isn't a small amount for some people, but it certainly isnt enough for him to be allowed to bully or belittle you. Ive gained and lost 50 in the last couple years because of my thryoid but my husband has only ever told me i was beautiful when I worried over it. Your weight may not be 100 percent in your control yet and thats okay you'll figure out what your body needs, but it isnt verbal and mental abuse fron your husband or anyone on the internet

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Easy, you study study study!! You educate yourself to the point where you specialise and know your domain like the back of your hand. Knowledge is power!!

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Sounds like your husband is a douche canoe. He should be trying to lift you up, not tear you down even more, smh

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I usually would tell you to focus on the positive and eventually it will come.
But in your case your problem is your husband. Get rid of him and you’ll start to see positive.
Good luck

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Leave the husband who makes you feel like shit

How do you get over insecurities?

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