Should I talk to her?

Question

My boyfriend has convinced me to get an abortion but I really don’t want to. I haven’t even told my mom I’m pregnant we were going to get the abortion in secret. Should I talk to my mom and ask for her opinion? Please help I’m really sad rn

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If you don't want to get an abortion, please talk to someone who will support & encourage you out of this dark spot!!! 
My friends boyfriend had convinced her as well, and then she spoke to her mom and her mom suggested she get an abortion, too. She was deveatated. Everyone in her life didn't want her to have her baby. Myself and another friend we're very supportive of her choice to keep the baby if that's what she wanted to do. All it took was that support, someone believing in her that she could do it, even if she was going to be a single mom, for her to feel strong enough to make her own choice. 
She decided to keep her son & he is 2 years old now and she loves him with all her heart!!! ❤️❤️❤️ When she looks back, it terrifies her that she almost aborted him. 
If YOU want to keep the baby, YOU get to chose. Even if you have NOTHING figured out yet, it OK. You have 9 months and that's a very long time to get things set up and in place. 
I say yes, tell your mom. It sounds like you need all the support you can get. 
Good Luck to you!!! Remember, you are strong and can make your own choices!!! 💪👊

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If you want the baby don't get an abortion. If he loves you he wouldn't try to force you to get one if you didn't want to. Talk to your mom. I had my 1st at 18 and my mom wasnt that mad and was more helpful than anything.

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If you don’t want to do it then don’t. Talk to your mom and let her know how you feel.

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Absolutely talk to your mom, sweet girl. I was 18 when I first found out when I was pregnant... and I was scared to death. My mother hated my boyfriend and I knew she would hate me forever. I debated abortion, and all judgment aside... I smoked a whole pack of cigarettes the night I found out I was pregnant. I will say, she was upset for a little while, but only because she loved me and knew how hard it was going to be on me. It definitely wasn’t and hasn’t been easy, but I wouldn’t trade my daughter for ANYTHING in the world. My mom got over being upset quickly, threw my baby shower, and she loves my daughter so much! Things happen... God has a plan. I promise! I totally understand you and your boyfriend being scared, but babies are NOT the end of the world. They just make you grow up a little faster :) there’s not anything that you can’t do with a baby if you’re motivated enough. Talk to your boyfriend, and if you want to keep the baby and he does not... he’s not anyone you need to be with whether you have the baby or not. Please let me know if you need anything at all. Will be praying for you!

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Don’t get it

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If you want to keep your baby, keep your baby.  ❤

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Please dont get an abortion if you dont want to. It truly makes me sad 😞 Someone I knew in my family had got one years and years ago and they still cry til this day when they think about it because they regret it so much. Dont hurt yourself just because he wants one! You will be a great mother! 💕💕💕

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If you don't want it, don't get it. It's your body and you get to choose what to do with it. Your boyfriend shouldn't talk you into something this huge. Talk to your mom about how you're feeling. Ultimately, nobody other than you should be making this choice and if you don't want to do it you will regret going through with it.

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Please talk to your mom. I would have gotten one if i hadn’t talked to her. 
(Boyfriend also stayed and loves our baby boy to pieces if thats a concern of yours)

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If u don’t want an abortion don’t get one .

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