Okay so me and my husband have decided that we are not going to spank our child, we have found other ways that work to discipline her such as a time out. It works for us and her and she listens afterwords. My sister always threatens that she is going to spank my daughter, we have told her we are not doing that and we have told her she better not do it as well, we’ll she told her 3 year old that it my 1 year old is mean to him then tell her and she’ll handle it (meaning she’ll spank her) she doesn’t care what anyone has to say. Are we on the wrong or is she?