so I’ll start off by saying I’m 19 and relatively new to anything sexual. I recently started dating a new guy so we’ve been having oral sex, fingering, handjobs, ya know, the usual, but we haven’t had penetrative sex yet. the problem is that I’m irrationally paranoid that I’m going to miraculously get pregnant. I worry that somehow he’s going to have cum on his hands and then finger me or I’m going to accidentally touch myself after touching him. after we do any sort of sexual activity I can’t help myself from going through exactly what happened in my head trying to remember if any semen would have gotten into my vagina. we’ve been naked together and although I’m nearly 100% positive nothing that could result in a pregnancy happened, I’m still worried. my period is a day late and I don’t really feel like I’m going to get it soon which is kind of normal for me but my periods have been a lot more regular lately so of course I’m even more worried now lol. anyway, I know this is irrational but I just can’t stop worrying about it. any ideas to help? thanks for reading this long ass post btw lol