I am wanting to start TTC & my husband doesn’t. He told me he wants to wait another few years and I think that is too long. We are both 22. We grew up together & were friends for 15 years before we got married. How do I talk to him about it? What do you do when you want a baby now and your husband doesn’t? I’m so torn! We have a beautiful new home, great jobs, everything.

I want to start young - What if I have complications? What if it takes me years to conceive? I know I will be a great mommy.

He’s fine with me being off birth control, we have been using the pull out method for over a year now. We haven’t really discussed it, but he knows I want one. Obviously I respect his decision either way, but I assume he doesn’t want one right now because he refuses to finish in me.