Relationship to single

Breana

How do I move on from a 9 years relationship with my boyfriend and he want to focus on hisself now and we have a son together and how do I go back doing what I used to do before I got with him but I love him but we don’t communicate or talk we just live together and he get to do whatever he want. I feel like I wasted 9 years of my life. I want to enjoy my life and go out and enjoy my son. When is the right time to talking to somebody else