Too much?

So I’ve been seeing this guy for a few weeks now, we’ve gone out on dates and had sex a couple of times now - he’s genuinely the sweetest guy I’ve ever gone out with, not to mention he’s hot af and knows what the hell hes doing down there, but anyways - he’s been so amazing to me and I kind of wanted to surprise him... I ordered this matching set (from the savage x fenty line) a while ago and I’ve been waiting to try it out but I’m worried it’s a bit too much for what would technically be our third date, opinions?