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Sooooo DONE !

Bri • Tue, Feb 26

I am about DONE with my current obgyn , they have been giving me NOTHING BUT HELL AND STRESS !!

So long story short , I wanted to change doctors and We had an issue due to They cannot accept Self referrals they would have to Get a refferal of my current obgyn To review and set up and appointment at the new office

okay so With that being said Lets call my Current Ob Doctor O and The New One office , office T

Doctor O office said " since you are wanting to Change doctors we can no longer care for you , you need to come pick up your shots and whom ever Takes care of you can do them "

I was like wait I am wanting to change doctors but havent found one , therefore why are yall Stop giving me care ( which I understand they See it as I no longer want service with them ) but still I havent changed docs yet , so I told her I didnt have one yet & if they were no longer giving me my shots do I just do them myself or what? Shes like just come and we will do your shots , after that youre on your own .

( Which clearly to me Says You no longer are going to do care after these shots !!! )

Monday comes ( yesterday ) I get my shot and The doctor tells me " You need to get with Texas Children Hospital and get a doctor so they can care for you , I don't want you to confuse that baby "

My response " okay that's fine " .

Than I ask one of the ladies while shes doing my shot ( I get mKena ) I was like okay so Y'all going to do these last shots but my regular OB visit was Next week Monday with her , so thats not going to happen neither ? "

Shes like Not trying to be rude shes like But Since you are wanting to change doctors , That is just a You no longer want service with us . I was like okay but what I dont get Is I havent changed nor found one yet but that's fine .

So I call Doctor T Office today explained it all and told them " well they said to get with you all about Trying to get in they no longer want to care for me ECT " shes like well as long as they fill out that referral since they no longer want to care for you We would be happy to tske you in And they can set an appointment . I was like Awesome !

So there I go....

Call Doctor O office , NOW they are saykng that its not that they didnt want to care for me that I wanted to leave , that They couldnt do a referral Because they are not refusing Care .

YET They cancelled ALL my appointments , said I Had to get my last shot and I was on my own to find a New Doctor and that doc Wasnt going to see me For my Regular visit & that I didnt have to go to the Doctor I wanted to go to that I could Just go to another one or she could talk to doctor about proceeding care .

Now That right there Had me Like okay so now you said Y'all didnt want to care for me and You had to speak to doctor , now why would you have to speak with doctor if she wanted to proceed care. And take me back ? I thought she didn't want to stop care though ?

It was so much , it is stressful as shit !

And than I was like okay since that is A High risk place , shes like youre not high risk thats for Much more high risk patients . I was like Wait what ? Shes like " we deal with patients like you all the time with what you have had " I was like okay So than if I am not high risk why am I seeing a specialist as well and getting these shots EVERY WEEK !

Shes like look you can do this and told me the same thing she said earlier .

So I call my specialist to find out what am I really going there for and if I am high risk ( a little back ground my 1st pregnancy I had preeclampsia and the second went into preterm labot but thankfully stopped it ) so I ask them and shes like it says You come here for Conplications you've had In your previous pregnancies and what we do with you , yes would consider you high risk . I was like thank you because I am being told I am not and I just wanted to know if I wasnt than why was I being seen by a specialist .