Bothering me lately, am I wrong?

Before me and my boyfriend got together I worked for his aunt and when I quit things left on bad terms, a couple months later we got together and I can’t do anything with his family or do anything he likes because him and his uncle are really close and do everything together and he absolutely hates me. I don’t know what to do, I really really love him but most nights I just end up sitting at home alone waiting and crying because I’m an emotional little bitch literally 24/7, while he’s out doing things he has to do and I can’t be there with him because his family doesn’t like me from a job I had over a year ago. What should I do?

UPDATE: I have tried to talk to them and apologize but they won’t hear me out. My boyfriend told them that he fully intends on marrying me but that just made them hate me more.