Couple months ago I went to a house party and saw a cute boy there, and I’m 22 but super shy so I had a friend who’s known him a long time mention to him that I thought he was cute and I guess she mentioned that I’d be down to hook up as well (which was true) we ended up having one conversation that night and I found him super adorable, but nothing came of it bc he slept early and I ended up going home with somebody else and the next morning he asked where I was apparently. I haven’t been with many people but I’m kinda going through the shit right now while also becoming more comfortable with my body and sexuality, I personally don’t think there’s anything wrong with casual sex as long as it’s safe and consensual however this is still so new to me as that would only be something I reserved for my partners up until a few months ago.

ANYWAY there was another get together on the weekend that I went to (same host) and he was invited as well. He was asking when I would be coming according to my friend multiple times. That night we finally got to be alone and talk a bit, he was super kind and asking me about my life and what I do and everything like that. HE kissed me. He was sitting beside me and we were sharing a blanket and he put my legs on him, makin all the moves and we kissed a bit more. Later he went into the bedroom and I got another guest to get him outta there for me as I wasn’t 100% sure if he expected me to come in there with him and didn’t want to be a creep. I later thanked that guy who brought him back out kinda profusely and I turn around and the cute boy was there so basically I wanted to end my shit right there. ANYWAYS we went in the room together later on, he again made the first moves and we had sex. We cuddled a bit after and then went for a smoke where I brought a blanket outside and mentioned I was still cold, where he then went behind me and put his arms around me and was being very sweet all night and telling me how pretty I was. The next morning I got called in to work and I was just going to get up and leave but I thought if it were the other way around I would hate that, so I woke him to tell him I was leaving. He asked me for my number and then texted me about an hour after I left telling me he had a good time and that it was nice to see me again. The next day my friend said “the boys” wanted to do round 2, so I went expecting to see the cute boy there but he wasn’t able to make it down. I texted him asking where he was he said he wasn’t gonna come I said “oh I got cute for nothing” and he was saying stuff like “how cute? Bc you’re already pretty cute” and complimenting me. I was joking around and said being annoying was my only talent where he said “I’m sure you’re talented at other things too” I said I could bake some stuff so there was another haha, but mentioned I only make treats for dudes I like where he said “looks like I won’t be getting any treats then” and I said that he had to “woo me” first, and he asked how he should do that and said he didn’t know much about me besides work and family. I said just be a decent dude and that I didn’t know much about him either, but that I would like to. He fell asleep but never responded to that message the next day either.

Next day I added his snap from the contacts page and sent him a message there and said I couldn’t tell if he just asked for my number to be nice or what. He said it wasn’t that and that he’s just a “super busy dude lately” where I said “that’s kind of like a fuckboy response but I’ll take it” haha

So basically, what do you guys think? I’m cool with something casual but not knowing if he wanted a one night thing or something more is a little frustrating and I genuinely can not tell.

We hooked up on Friday and only had very minimal conversations since then and hasn’t talked today at all (Tuesday)

Thanks in advance :)