Could you be in a relationship without sex
Read my post then tell me what you think.
About two weeks ago i got talking to a lovely guy after meeting on a spina bifida meetup group. We talked on phone tx a lot. Talk about ourselves felt it was right to meet so we did two weeks to the day we first message eachover. We went to local pub evening time got on great i told him stuff about me he told me more about him. However i was shocked to find out he can't do sex as he has a catheter pee bag in 24/7 he is paralysed from spina bifida. I have spina bifida myself but i can walk. With my ex we were ttc at the time & i had 7 miscarriages & 6 chemical pregnancies i have always wanted to try again for a baby with the right person if i meet someone & he wanted the same. I know there is adoption i would love to adopt but want to ttc myself with the right person. But him saying he can't do sex never can. I felt guilty because to me sex is a important part of a relationship & obviously that wouldn't happen if i was in a relationship with this guy. Am i wrong for not wanting a relationship with this guy. I expect I'll get a lot of hate replys from everyone. But see it from my side. I'm not gonna lead this guy on i just don't know how to tell him a relationship wouldn't work
1. I like sex it's important part of a relationship to me
2. He don't know if he can have children & yes I'd adopt but after having miscarriages/chemical pregnancies i don't wanna give up on trying ttc just yet.
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