Needing to vent

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So I’m on my first pregnancy. I’m a little over 4 weeks and due around the beginning only November. Husband and I told our parents and two of our closest friends the news. Now my old doctor knows and my godmother because of my mother. I read you’re supposed to wait till you’re through your first trimester before announcing. What’s done is done but it’s frustrating because she told me it was MY choice when to tell people and that it was best to wait. Feel like I’m not gonna have a say in announcing my own baby