So a few months ago (4 or 5) my bf's ex was texting him, asking for rides here and there, always asking if they could meet up. My bf was alway polite and courteous but never responded to her requests or met up with her. He and I promised each other a year or 2 ago that if our ex ever reached out to us we would tell each other. Well he didnt want to argue over something innocent so he never told me, I found out & got mad. His ex is bi and I texted her new gf to tell her they'd been talking behind our backs, and tell her shes been trying to meet up with my bf. The girl got defensive, said some nasty things about me & my bf, so I let it go & didnt contact her after that. He blocked his ex's number and social media.

So now, 5 months later, his ex got a new number and texted him, basically saying, "I dont understand why your gf is so intimidated by me, I was just trying to reach out to you as part of my sobriety treatment to make amends, you never mentioned her I didnt mean to be disrespectful, she has caused problems in my relationship, please keep her away from us" 🙄🙄🙄 so shes asking my bf, after hes blocked her on everything and neither of us have been in contact with her for months, to tell me to leave her alone, and that I am causing problems in her relationship. Wtf? I have a lot of experience with manipulative people and I feel like she just did this to reach out & tug on his heart strings, & make sure he got her new number. And she did know about me, I had spoken to her once last year before this happened ( because she reached out to my bf while she was arguing with a past bf of hers).

This girl is drama and I want to make it clear that I'm not intimidated by her, I just want her to stop bothering my bf. They broke up 3 years ago & I've been with him almost 2 years. I have had 2 encounters with her now and I am sick of it. She always plays the victim and my bf is too nice to tell her to fuck off, he just blocked her & didnt respond. Should I say something to this bitch? Should I let her gf know shes still bothering my bf who wants nothing to do with her? Or should I just leave it alone?