The first time I had sex, it was super painful we had to stop. I also started bleeding...a lot. I would overflow a pad in about half an hour for that day and the day after. I was wondering why that is? I know when it's your first time you're supposed to bleed a little, but this was an insane amount of blood. I thought I could be my period, but i thought it was weird that it'd start right as I was having sex. Since then, sex is still extremely painful and honestly unbearable. Is there a way to make sex stop being painful?