My bf and I were dating for almost a year then he found out he was getting deployed so he proposed to me and wanted to marry me the next day. I said we should wait then he comes over and talks to my family and tells them he wants to marry me everyone was very supportive. We decided to wait but then he texts me saying he isn’t happy and then I ask him why and he says our relationship and that we rushed. When he’s the one who called all the shots. Then he says he loves me but he someone else has his heart. And can’t even be straight up so finally I ask if he doesn’t want to marry me anymore and he says no not rn. Then he says he just wants to be free. So basically he wants to be single while he’s deployed. So I gave him a piece of my mind. But now my heart is so broken as I put my whole life on hold for him. I was going to move countries for him. And four days before this he sits in my house and plans a wedding with my mom... men ain’t shit