So my husband had been mostly unemployed since last May 2018. He's had two short temp jobs and just landed another temp job now.

Well last week I believe it was, he asked me a question about something regarding our annual income and credit. I asked you why he was asking me that, but he didn't tell me an exact answer, just that he was looking into his financial health or something.

Well today I got a letter in the mail that said they denied his request for a personal loan because he has insufficient income...

What the hell? This worries me because he already got into $11,000 debt that I have no idea how he did. He won't show me what he spent it on. And NOW he's trying to take a another loan behind my back from the looks of it?!

I haven't confronted him yet. I'm waiting until he gets home.

But to me this is almost as bad as if he were cheating on me.

What should I do? What would you do in this situation?

UPDATE: I confronted him. He claims he was trying to find out his "financial health" and that they automatically just sent his information to lenders...(I'm talking about this recent incident, not the $11k)

UPDATE: I kinda know what the $11k was spent on. His online subscriptions and Christmas gifts from years past that I know he spent thousands on. I'm 100% sure it's not gambling. He HATES gambling with a passion. He HATES losing so he never plays.