Should I test or am I going crazy??

So this cycle I have been feeling different from every other month we have been ttc. Like normally my ones symptoms are EXACTLY like pregnancy symptoms so I tend to test. But this month absolutely nothing. No sore breasts, nausea, fatigue,etc.. nothing. It has been the complete opposite. So wen my cycle came I figured I would try again next month but even that was different. I basically was spotting for 3 days n that is the most unusual thing I have ever had, and my areolas are larger than before. So my question is should I get a test or just wait??