Okay so I am three months pregnant and me and my husband have two kids together. We are getting ready to move from a close community to an isolated one in a. Month, I’m super social and my partner seems to just want to hang out with us exclusively. Last night after I put our two kids to bed I went out to a neighbors next door where a handful of friends were hanging out, I haven’t hung out with friends in the evening without him in like 7 or 8 months. oh and I want to add I totally let him know where I was going. After 20 minutes he left our kids alone sleeping to come and “ remind” me he had an errand to do, forcing me to return home because the kids were unattended. This was an unimportant errand, doing laundry, so could have waited. So now tonight I went out to put the greenhouse up and popped over to say hi to our neighbor and got caught in a conversation for like 15 minuites. Again he comes over IRATE and it’s suuuuper embarrassing at this point. I feel so dejected and so I return home and try to talk to him, I offered that I’m sorry I popped over for a few minuites without telling him and tried to tell him I’ll be sad soon with no friends and it’s really good for me to socialize. He said he’s worried I’m going to get drunk ( ok I’m three months pregnant WHAT THE FUCK) and said he’s worried about me.... for 15 minuites at the neighbors?? I’m 30! I’m worried that he’s exhibiting controlling possessive signs and am feeling worried. He’s a very jealous type and recently stopped smoking weed so I feel like he feel that if he can’t hang out I can’t either. I can’t live without friends guys...

UPDATE

Ok so he just apologized, he said he was worried about me and when I asked about what he said “ me getting hit over a head with a club and being dragged into the woods”,so I am pushing him to go to see a counselor ASAP because that’s PARANOIA. Anyways I will continue to stand up for myself and if I can’t have friends I will drop him fast cos that ain’t right! Thanks for all the support everyone.