Since my son came home, I've had to think on how to deal with going back to work. There have been some days I didn't know if someone cod take care of the baby. I can't afford a daycare and my husband works in the morning till afternoon while I work the afternoon till night. There was only one day I needed someone to watch the baby for a few hours. I asked my mom is she can watch him from when I leave work till his dad comes home on the one day a week I can't do so, around 4 hours. She was happy to take care of her grandson once a week on her day off. I never forced her, we just agreed. Skipping 2 months later, there have been some of those days where she tells me the day before she can't take care of the baby... which is ok because she's not forced to but now I have to find someone last minute or be absent from work which pretty soon I'll ve fired because of my attendance.

I recently had an argument with my mother, she said I owe her a lot of money from taking care of the baby and that I was forcing her to take care of him....

Am I wrong to think it is horrible for her to charge me to take care of the baby???.... I feel heartbroken...