Devastated

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Stephanie

I lost my precious baby boy last Sunday due to the negligence of my obgyn. As well as the staff in Harlem hospital in NYC. I am beyond devastated I’ve waited 11 years to conceive just for him to be taken away from me at 16 weeks. Idk what to do or how to move on. This pain is unbearable. Please send prayers to me and my family.

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Ni

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I'm so sorry for your loss. What did your obgyn did wrong if you don't mind telling me.. praying for you. 😣😣

Ni

Ni • Mar 2, 2019
That's terrible hun so sorry you are going through this! Just remember after every storm there is always a rainbow! I now it's hard now..

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Stephanie • Mar 1, 2019
I kept telling them that I was bleeding throughout my whole first trimester. She kept saying it was normal. But in reality I was suppose to be put in bed rest because I have a history of miscarriages and I have fibroids. It’s like nobody cares. This has been the worst 5 days of my life. Smh

Mi

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I’m so sorry to hear this, I understand how painful it is as 1 month ago today I lost our beautiful girl at 20 weeks. Thinking of you and your family x

Mi

Michelle • Mar 2, 2019
I can’t say I’ve good days but I have some days that I manage to hold it together and others I just can’t, yesterday as it was 1 month I fell apart. Take any support or counselling you can get. I have found I’m ok when I’m talking but if someone just looks at me wrong or if I’m in silence I’m pretty bad. Have you got photos? Even just photos if you pregnant, put them on the wall or in a book to help you. I’ve also got one of our daughters blankets and a teddy that I keep in bed with me. Not sure any of it is recommended but I’m happier I have them even though they make me sad she’s still part of our lives forever xxx

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Stephanie • Mar 1, 2019
Thank you so much. Idk what to do honestly. My heart is broken.

La

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Sorry for your loss ❤️

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Stephanie • Mar 1, 2019
Thank you

S

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Praying for you