Do you guys limit yourself to two or three drinks on a first date or do you just do whatever the fuck you want and have a good time? LOL

I’m asking because I went on a really great first date two nights ago and got completely ghosted.

I met a local boy at a restaurant while on a business trip, And we decided to get drinks. Over the course of three hours on the date, we had probably 5 gin and tonics each, plus the 2 glasses of wine I had at dinner. THATS A LOT I KNOW but I totally didn’t feel super drunk just fun and flirty. We made plans to hang out again before I left town and took an Uber back to the location of the restaurant and parted ways. We were all over each other on the date so I was a little surprised that he didn’t want to stay the night. But I also just thought he was being a gentleman; he blew me a kiss before the elevator closed and insisted on paying for everything the whole night. On the date we made plans to hang out three more times because they were different things he wanted to show me in the city.... So when I texted him the next evening a full day later, I was pretty surprised to get this response:

I have literally heard nothing from him sense. It’s not a big deal because it’s a business trip but my feelings are kind of hurt and I’m wondering if I maybe was too drunk. The date was so good I would have wanted to keep in contact with him. I feel like shit because I felt like FINALLY I met someone who I just click with and I can be 100% myself and have fun. Then BOoM, the universe is like nope.

Idk if I’m really looking for an answer. I just need to vent because I’m sad. I’m here in Hong Kong alone and got really excited to know someone wanted to keep me company. He’s Greek living in this city and his accent was so adorable.