Hi ladies! I’m curious to know how you would handle this situation... So I’m the oldest of three sisters and I can’t help but realize that for my birthdays my youngest sister doesn’t really make the attempt to even send me a birthday card let alone a birthday gift. It’s not the value that matters but the action. It’s been like that for the last few years, yet for her birthday I always give her a gift or do something to make her feel special. But it makes me feel bad that she doesn’t even try yet when it comes to her friends she always celebrates them! I don’t mean to be childish, but I feel that it should be both ways, and maybe I should also stop giving her birthday gifts. However, her bday is coming up and she’ll be in town so I’m torn on what to do! And the last thing that I want is to have my mom get on my case if I decide not to give a birthday gift. What would you do?