Y’all. I officially have to have a cesarean one week from today. I’m terrified. I’ve been through 2 vaginal births so I already know what to expect there. Can I get some advice on self care and quick healing afterward? This may be TMI but my digestive track is pretty slow due to my thyroid issues so idk how to deal with that part. Stool softeners DONT work for me at all. 😩 I’m so emotional about this. Everyone keeps telling me that I’m over reacting but I have a toddler at home that I won’t be able to lift for 2 months and there’s no way my husband can take 2 months of unpaid leave. How am I supposed to get him out of his crib or put him in for naps? How am I supposed to change his diapers? How am I supposed to take care of him at all? I have no one but my in-laws here and they’re all too busy to be helping me for 2 months. I have no idea how this is going to work.