So my grandma passed away in October and we (me and my grandpa) went back and forth for weeks over who gets her room I won but here it is now going on march and he's been on my case about how messy it was.

HE had a Styrofoam head on the dresser, HE had a box of god knows what on the sewing machine at the foot of the bed that HE said he was gonna go through, a gift bag of jewelry HE was supposed to distribute to coworkers and family, a carhart bag that HE wanted to keep for our first aid bag and this was all over MY room and he has the nerve to say I have to move back into my harry potter closet of a room if I don't keep the room straightened up it was all stuff he said he was going to take care of.

I was not in the mood for it today I woke up had a blood stain on the bed then my cat spit up then she decided to pee on the dog towel so I was not in the mood for this shit today is it right for him to threaten with making me go back to my old room when everything that was a problem was his stuff

And then he says I don't get any of her jewelry anymore (when she multiple times to both of us that I get her jewelry) and says he's taking everything over and yet here I am stuffing purses with newspaper to sell to coworkers and family so now I wash my hands if that they're ready to go if he tells people he tells people its not my problem anymore