My husband and I tried for 4 years to get pregnant and my best advice to anyone TTC is Stay positive and dont stress out!!! At first I cried every month when I had to accept that it wasnt our month. I would also cry every time I heard that someone was pregnant and wasnt even trying. I finally accepted that it will happen when it happens and guess what!!! It did happen!!! We are due in August!!! I am so excited and blessed!!!
18 MONTHS TTC, I WILL GET PREGNANT THIS YEAR. WHO IS WITH ME!!!!! 🤞🏻🙋🏻♀️
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Lauren • Mar 9, 2019
Love this, it’s nice to know I am not the only one who feels this way, congratulations to you! ❤️
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B • Mar 5, 2019
Praying for you love!! ❤️
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Val • Mar 4, 2019
Love this!!! If May rolls around and we haven’t conceived, it’ll be 4yrs. I’ve surrendered it over to Jesus. I’m at peace now with however God will do it! Congrats to you!!!
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We got pregnant accidentally in Oct 2016 but lost them at 6wks3days due to unknown causes. When March 2017 came we decided to stop preventing ready to have a baby, by June 2017 we were actively TTC, still no luck. July 1st (our baby’s due date) I stood in my sisters wedding numb with pain. By Aug I was told his cousin got pregnant on her first try - I was on the floor hyperventilating because why was it so hard for us?!! Then the holidays came, along with my period I was getting every 28 days no matter how hard we tried. March 2018 we found out his sister was pregnant by accident - I was already over a year TTC & just numb with pain, I didn’t cry till 2 wks after she told me. I put on a smile while I watched everyone around me fall pregnant. Then I got unexplained uterine bleeding while doing Paleo & was put back on BC for THREE months and while you’re TTC that is the worst thing next to a BFN cause that’s 3 waisted months 😣 In that time though I got an HSG and other testing done. All came back normal except fast forward to Oct 2018 and we go to an RE (who I LOVE) and who tells me that I need surgery to remove my 11mm septum (what they suspected caused the last miscarriage but now I think it was crashing levels of progesterone) - so on Dec 20th that’s what I did - they also found a polyp while doing the septum removal. By Jan 2019 we were prepping for our first IUI (fiancé has super low count), I was so nervous cause they say the first rarely ever works - but fast forward to Feb 9th 2019 at 7am I took my first BFP in 2 years (about 30 cycles) 😭 I was crying for a new reason that I LEGIT never thought would happen and today we got to see our miracle baby’s heartbeat!! So stay STRONG momma - and leave it to Gods timing no matter how hard that is to do. ❤️ I’m rooting for ALL the mommas TTC’ing still that they get their sticky BFP’s this year as well.
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Je • Mar 8, 2019
This brought tears to my eyes!!!!! Congratulatjo
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Shandel • Mar 8, 2019
I needed to read this today. I havr been trying for almost 2 years and ive been okay thru the whole process with only a fee break downs. Have haf a surgery and on cycle 2 of ovulation medicine and still nothing. Next step is another surgery to remove a "sick" fallopian tube and an endometroma on my left ovary. From there im doing IUI.. hoping someyhing works. 🤞
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B • Mar 7, 2019
Thank you! We are over the moon but half my heart still sits with the woman who are waiting on your BFPs I pray you all get them soon! ❤️ I seriously never thought we’d be here. I thought we were gonna have to adopt - I dreaded never having my own kid. I’m still scared we’ll lose this one but now I’m 7wks1day and we’ve already got a heartbeat so I’m hopeful 🙌🏼 - keeping you in my thoughts & prayers B! - p.s. don’t ever be afraid to seek out help even if it means changing insurance plans.
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Ttc since September 2017. Tested last night and this morning and got what Is like to think is a BFP (faint yet positive lol) I’d cry every month when AF came around and I actually posted abt giving up but thanks to this wonderful group of women I kept faith and I received this this morning so stay positive and have faith!
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Michelle • Mar 16, 2019
Congratulations! That's how light mine looked yesterday. How many days later did you retest to confirm?
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Ashley • Mar 5, 2019
Thanks sooo much! I’m soo happy, excited, nervous, etc emotions all over the place! Lol
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B • Mar 5, 2019
Congrats love! 😍 I hope you have a healthy 9 months!!!
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Thank you. I needed a post like this today! Been really down about it today, and this really helped! Yes ladies, it’s so hard to feel like you are so unlucky ..and to keep positive .. and not stress out, but you’re thinking about it all the time! My sister had 2 babies from “not even trying” within the same time span that my husband and I started ttc and had 2 mcs. ( 2 years) Some people never have to buy those opk kits, read strips, calculate timing, and then buy more when months have done by and it hasn’t worked. They just get to jump into bed a few times and it works. For us, the innocence is gone and now it’s just a true mission that we are committed to and has made us a stronger couple and stronger people. Sometimes I feel so annoyed at others that they didn’t have to go through this pain and sadness, an innocent comment about why you don’t have kids can hurt so much. but then I try to remember that we are on a different journey and our day will come. It will not look the same.. but it will feel just as rewarding and worth it 🙏🏻🌈🌈
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Ali 💕 • Mar 8, 2019
Awe! Thanks girlies I really appreciate it. I hope so too. ❤️
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Sefakor • Mar 8, 2019
You just gave me hope, it's not been easy I always cry, but I know God will answer my prayers soon
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Selah • Mar 7, 2019
This is beautiful! Praying for you ❤
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Me going on 2 years this month praying I get my positive before my period this week 🤞🏼
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Savannah • Mar 7, 2019
Thank you I hope you do too
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B • Mar 7, 2019
I’m sorry love! Hope you get good news soon!
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Savannah • Mar 6, 2019
Update got my period going to the doctor again this month
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