Say you’re 17. You can’t go over to their place because well obviously their parents wouldn’t like them having a boy over in your room. (Other reason you don’t know is because they’re house isn’t the greatest looking & they’re kind of embarrassed, TV is on the floor) Would you judge your SO for that if you saw their room was like that? And would you care if you weren’t allowed at their house?

Edit- this is my reasoning for not wanting to bring someone over. My house isn’t the greatest looking, TV is on the floor, Carpet has stains (sisters fucked up my room spilt soda and other things on the floor because it wasn’t their room😒)

It isn’t a big deal to me like if I’m not allowed over at your place it’s fine🤷🏻‍♀️ and if you aren’t allowed at mine it shouldn’t be a big deal. Just wanted to see what your opinions were