Sick of sex

My husband has a really low sex drive and when we do have sex it lasts for maybe 3 minutes tops... leaving me extremely frustrated and feeling just down right mad from the lack of satisfaction. When I try talking to him about it all we do is fight because he wont do anything he tells me he wont help with my satisfaction he just rolls over and tells me if I'm going to throw a fit he doesnt want to have sex with me anymore.

Whay do I do? We are only having sex once to maybe twice a month I'm going crazy here. Sure I could just handle things myself but I want that intimacy with him ugh