Does it hurt? I know I’ve asked people before and they say it’s different for everyone... I’m kind of nervous though because I tried putting a tampon in before and it hurt, I never actually got it in and I’ve never used a tampon because of it. I’ve never masturbated either. I know that some people say stretching your hymen doesn’t hurt and others say they bleed, I’m just so confused. I’ve never been to a lady doctor before, we dont have insurance if your gonna yell at me cause I know I should have one. My boyfriend says his ex bled and that scares me a lot so I’m just looking for a majority answer I suppose?