Is it too much of me to ask my mom to keep our conversations private

My mom has been with this guy for about 3-4 months.

I confide in my mother, I always have. I was frustrated with my boyfriend who’ve I’ve been with for 5 years. I expressed My frustration to her and asked for advice. I don’t go telling my mom all our business but I was really needing advice that I’m not comfortable talking to just anyone about. I just needed my mom.

She told her boyfriend and then her boyfriend took it upon himself to confront MY boyfriend.

Besides him overstepping, I want to talk to my mom about this because I feel like she shouldn’t have told her boyfriend. I’m grown, I’m 22 and pay my own bills and live on my own. I should be able to confide in my mother and expect her to keep it between her and I only. He’s not my dad. He didn’t raise me. It’s not his business.

Yes I’m upset with her boyfriend but she is my mom and my MOM first.

Vote below to see results!