Husband has exes photos!?!

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I found pictures of my husband and 2 of his exes and photos and love letters! What would you do? We been together for 8 years. He has them in a safe locked away. I was snooping.

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Weird. That’s how I’d feel. None of my ex’s have ever done that nor my husband now. Just talk to him. Don’t leave him that’s a bit far lol

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I mean I have old shit from exes. Who cares? They’re just in boxes at my moms house. They’re old letters from high school, pictures from prom and other dates, etc. I don’t see how keeping stuff like that really impacts you in any way

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How long were they together? I don’t keep anything of exes but it is ok if people want to keep things from their past life, you’re married to him but he’s still his own person

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Leave them alone and leave him alone about it. And stop snooping!! youre a grown woman and hes not your child. You obviously dont trust him so why dont you just leave him.

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I think it’s weird 🤷🏽‍♀️

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My dad still has a picture of his ex,7 kids later and pretty much 20 years of being married.
Once or twice when going through memories,he would pull it out and show us and we'd talk about it and we would tease my mom that they look alike alot ect.
I dont know,i never found it too concerning that he had one.

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I'd burn them while he wasn't around.

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Uhm I would feel some type of way about it. Just ask him. People keep things for different reasons. I personally work my keep pictures of my exes or love letters. But everyone is different.

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I think your over reacting.. it’s not like their recent photos. I would leave it alone, choose your battles wisely

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It sounds like some old memories from his life. Nothing more. Stop snooping and leave those things alone. People are allowed to look back on their life and keep a few momentos. You've probably spent more time looking at them then him.

Husband has exes photos!?!

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