Blowjob?Help please:(

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My boyfriend loves head (it’s his favorite thing) though it’s not really my favorite thing bc I feel as if I don’t give him good enough head. I can’t really deep throat and when I try to I end up gagging. Does anyone have any tips on that? I do focus on the tip and use my hands to massage his balls or simply jerk him off but I can’t deep throat.

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I had a similar problem like a month ago actually. We have been dating for two years and I could never make him cum with a blowjob. He said it felt good but I felt inadequate. I’m big on pleasing the other person so it bothered me that I couldn’t make him cum. I asked him what it was and he said I didn’t do it long enough. And ya time is important but I knew that it couldn’t be just that. I did a bunch of research and found some things I’ll list below. Now I make him cum almost every blow job (sometimes I blow him to make him hard so we can have sex). 
So these are the tips:
1. Foreplay. Kiss his thighs and the area around his penis. Then kiss his penis. I usually kiss it slowly to tease him. I’ll kid up until I reach the tip (you can also kiss his balls)
2. Lick it. I usually lick up starting at the base ending at the tip. Sometimes I’ll tease him and start to put it in my mouth than take it out. ALSO with licking I suggest doing slowly and try licking around the tip. It might seem hard to do but it isn’t once you get the hang of it. I usually have to move his penis to get all the way around. Again keep teasing him. Sticking it in and sucking once. 
3. Usually by this time he is really aroused. I’ll start sucking him. To be honest I can’t rep throat either. (His dick is on the bigger side and my gag reflex isn’t great) you can achieve the same effect by going as deep as you can while being comfortable and putting your hand on the base of his penis while you suck mimic the motion of your mouth. This gives the affect of his entire dick being sucked.
4. A very experienced friend once told me that she never met a guy who didn’t like a messy blow job. Spit on it a little let the saliva from your mouth coat it. This also helps with the deep throat feeling
5. Be excited. Tease him. Whenever we say goodbye I’ll whisper something in his ear like “I can’t wait to feel your dick in my mouth again” it turns him on a lot. 
6. If he cums don’t feel obligated to swallow. If you can do it. If you can’t don’t force yourself. It’s something you can practice
7. At least for my bf gagging or coughing is hot. It makes him feel good about himself. I’ll say something like “your dick is so big I can barely take it”
I hope this helps. When I starting doing this not only did he enjoy it a lot but I did too. I love giving him blowjobs now cause I know he likes it. Honestly teasing him with licking and kissing changed everything. It revs him up. Now he can have sex for a very long time. We both can. Last night we had sex for an hour and a half. (Penetration, oral, foreplay) so there are times where I get tired. I really hope this helps
P.S. playing with the balls is a really good thing so keep doing that. You don’t constantly need to do it and make sure you aren’t to rough

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A really cool deep throating technique is to hold ur left thumb in as tight as u can. U should be able to deep throat without a problem. Also if u have him lay on his back and u kind of hover over him it should give u some more range. Being on the floor or on ur knees is extremely hard so don’t take it personal. Just keep switching up and make it exciting. Use the 69 position without reviving. Give him something to look at and feel . Keep in stimulated!

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This might be weird but it helped me a ton. I’m fairly new to deep throating but I’m the same as you. I still gag, and you can’t breathe when you deep throat, so remember you’re not deep throating the entire time. But what I did was use throat numbing spray. Just one spray and then tried. Usually because you’re trying it, he’ll orgasm fairly quicker since it’s new. Then I just kept practicing and now I can go with out it. Just don’t use that spray a lot since it is a medication. 😬😬😬

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If you are willing to try it they do make lubes and stuff like that that is supposed to help numb your throat. But even if you can't deep throat use your hand at the base and use your mouth to focus on the tip.

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Just Go as far as you can. Maybe change the tempo. Start slow and tease and then slowly get faster and then slow down again. Use tongue like in a licking motion while sucking. Good luck:)

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My main technique is suck it like a straw almost? Creating your mouth as a vacuum (like when using a straw) apparently is quite nice to the man😂 the biggest thing is really being into it. You enjoying it will up his enjoyment and the whole experience!:D listening to what makes him moan and dont be afraid to explore different things! (Just no teeth lmao)

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I have a really bad gag reflex and my tip is to grab him at the base and jerk him off and then suck on the tip and swirl your tongue around. You cant go too far down because your fist is blocking it but hes also getting stimulated farther down with your hand. Worked wonders on my man!

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I suggest work on your gag reflex and take time to practice on deepthroating don't force it down it'll actually make your gag reflex even more sensitive then it is now I found a YouTube video by Evie Lupine she goes into the process of practicing she's geared towards BDSM but BDSM requires a lot of deep throat so people like that are really good at giving information towards that kind of stuff

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