This is a long story ladies

Alright so the other night I was with my bf. My dad came home yelling at me. My bf tried to defend me by trying to say I was doing my part around the house. My dad got mad he told my bf he wasn’t in the discussion and wasn’t part of the family so had no part and told him to leave. My bf continued to defend me because I started to cry then my brother came down. He was yelling at my bf to shut the fuck up and get out and all this stuff. As my bf was trying to leave, my brother thought he was lunging at him and pushed him a couple times. My bf obviously got mad and didn’t swing but went after him. My brother pushed him again and was on top of him punching him. My dad got on top and it didn’t look like he was trying to get my brother off but claims that’s what he was doing. They wrestled around and I started to freak out. (I have an anxiety disorder) I tried to help get them apart but I couldn’t. I remember crying and screaming and that’s about it. My bf said he was scared and wanted to help me and tried to hold my brother so he would stop trying to hit him. It worked and he ran to me to call me. After my bf left his brother came to talk and settle things. I was still pretty shaken up. I called my mom and she was saying pretty bad things about my bf, his family and me. I don’t know what to do right now. I think my family was in the wrong. My family things he was in the wrong. I consider my bf part of our family but I guess they don’t feel the same. My mom was telling me to stop having a “fit” while talking to her. She’s always kind of made fun of my mental health. My dad while talking to my bfs brother also said that I twist stories around and lie. ( my bf knew of my brother abusing me in the past and brought that up in the fight) my parents have defended my brother for physically hurting me and don’t see it as abuse. He would hit my with objects, threaten my life, they still didn’t see it as abuse. Basically who do you think was right, my family or my boyfriend? I think everyone was in the wrong. I just feel like they’re all expecting me to pick a side.