I’ve been SO stressed out for the past few weeks over some boy. We hooked up, were talking all the time once he left, and everything was great until he told me he wanted to focus on himself and doesn’t feel ready for a committed relationship. It happened so quickly that I’ve had so many questions for the past week. I was scrolling on insta and noticed he liked a girls pic from last year. My heart dropped because he did this with me when he was talking to me...he went back and liked a lot of my pics. The thing is though that I know she lives by me. Why would he tell me he’s not ready for a committed relationship and doesn’t think he can do a LDR if he might be talking to this other girl? Now I don’t know if he’s talking to another girl or not but I at least want to know the truth & I think I somewhat deserve it after being dropped so quickly. We’ve agreed to go back to being good friends but it’s so hard to talk to him without feeling like I’m annoying him & that’s why I’m not even sure if I should say anything because I don’t want to ruin the “okay” friendship we have rn. I just want to say something like “this has been bothering me for a while but I just want you to be honest with me. Was the reason you changed your mind so quickly really because you wanted to focus on yourself and you weren’t ready for a relationship? I understand if you just wanted to talk to other people, but I just want you to be honest”. Or is there another way I can say this? Also, he may or may not have blocked me from seeing his snap stories and I SO wanna throw that in there but I don’t want to seem even more crazy. I just want an honest and truthful friendship now. Any ideas???