So another friend of mine is pregnant.. just looking at her post makes me just want to cry Why is it so hard for me? I don’t get it! I try to be okay with everything, but it soo frustrating that in a blink of an eye people can conceive and I can’t.

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A lot of us feel the same way. You’re allowed to be upset about it. It sucks and isn’t fair.

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I understand. I get the same way. In the time I've been ttc I've seen people get pregnant, have a healthy baby, get pregnant a 2nd time and have their 2nd healthy baby. As happy as we are for people, it's also difficult because their success highlights our struggles. It's completely normal to be upset. Dont beat yourself up.

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It’s very difficult. Some people are able to push their feelings aside and see and feel joy for everyone and some people cannot always do that (I cannot!!!) neither way is wrong. It is perfectly normal to feel this way and I really struggled with that. Feeling guilty and like I was a mean horrible person. I understand people comments about that you “should just be happy for them” but in my opinion you shouldn’t listen to them. You SHOULD feel however you feel! There is no should in this process. We survive every day, every minute, the best we can!! You’re doing a great job and if you need to vent this is a safe place. You’re not alone. Feel all your feelings good or bad or indifferent. It doesn’t make you a bad or mean person. My sister and I live 10 minutes away from each other. We’ve both been pregnant three times. She has 2 kids and is 19 weeks along with another healthy baby. I have no living children and I’m 10 weeks from IVF and terrified. I couldn’t handle being around her when she was pregnant with her second. I didn’t really bone with that nephew until he was 2 months old. It was too painful. I felt horrible about myself but it isn’t my fault and it didn’t make me bad. Try to be honest with the friends and family members who you can be. I found that they really genuinely care and try their hardest to understand and respect your feelings! Sorry this was so long. I just got upset seeing others telling you to feel a certain way..... you can’t help it!! You’re not wrong!! ❤️

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I’ve been where you are, the feeling never really went away for me even tho I have a 3 year old and pregnant with my second. I still cringe every time I hear a pregnancy announcement... but I’m thankful that I had the $20k I had to spend to have my babies. Even tho my best friend got pregnant 7 years ago when we started our TTC journey, her second had numerous medical issues and now she’s going thru a divorce. You never know what other people are going through.

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How do you know it was easy for them? 
They may have been in the same boat as all of us and you may never know.
Be happy for those who don’t have to do this all. 
We will all have our day in the sunshine 😀🌻🌞

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Iv been trying for a baby for a year now but just found out I have PCOS, my sister told me yesterday that’s she’s pregnant and said that I need to try to get pregnant so we can be off together ... hmmm what does she think I’m going to the hospital every other week for 😩

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I know how you feel...had a friend get pregnant, they were not even trying. Here I have been trying for almost 2 years...

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Amen

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Hello please don't be made just came down be happy for get it because if think about it you will get it,it happens to me you please be happy and pray

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I have not had children yet at 35 have had an ectopic before sadly

So another friend of mine is pregnant.. just looking at her post makes me just want to cry Why is it so hard for me? I don’t get it! I try to be okay with everything, but it soo frustrating that in a blink of an eye people can conceive and I can’t.

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