Too old fashioned??

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So me and my partner were together for just over two years. We started having sex after our first date. 
Two years wasted as we ended up breaking up. We stayed friends and then he tried to have sex with me the other day and tried to finger me, I pushed his hands away and made him stop. 
Anyways! Now I'm finding it hard to trust people. I don't plan on getting into a relationship anytime soon at all, I'm going to work on myself first! 
HOWEVER, WHEN O DO EVENTUALLY GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP IS IT TOO OLD FASHIONED TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE TO HAVE SEX?? Me and my ex were extremely commited to each other (so I thought) we had a son who was unfortunately stillborn and I thought he was "the one" 
Two years wasted on him... I don't want to have sex with someone I don't know if I can trust. Even if it takes 10+ years to get married I'd rather wait until someone is committed to me.... I don't know...

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Do whatever you’re comfortable with.

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I think if you don’t trust someone enough to have sex with them then you aren’t ready to marry them either 🤷🏻‍♀️ but I’m a big believer in having sex and moving in together before marriage. I think you need to make sure you’re sexually compatible and have that type of intimacy before you get married. I also strongly feel you need to live with someone before marrying them.

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The choice is yours, I wouldn’t worry about what other people think, personally Its not for me but that doesn’t mean Cindy (I don’t actually know a cindy & have no idea why that name popped into my head 😂) down the road has to be happy about it or has to agree with it 🤷🏼‍♀️ 
If that’s what you feel is best for you, then that is what you should do, be loyal to yourself & if that’s your way of self care then nobody should tell you any different; your not doing anything illegal or anything harming others. 
Hopefully you will not have this anxiety about trust always, and besides you never know you might meet some one and be like “hell no I want a bit of fun now” which again as long as you are safe that is your choice :)

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That’s your personal choice, once you find a partner it’s going to have to be a person that respects that and is okay with it

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My husband and I were both virgins when we got married. We’re celebrating our tenth anniversary this year. It definitely works for lots of people.

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Not old fashioned at all. That’s what my husband and I did. Zero regrets.

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Do not worry about what others think, do what you think is best for you!👌🏾 After all, YOU are the one who have to live with YOUR decisions! Make the best decision for you!

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My husband and I waited until we were married to have sex with each other. We had both had sex in previous relationships so we weren’t virgins by any means. It wasn’t a trust thing it was more of a let’s make this really special kind of thing. So happy we waited! It was more romantic and special than anything I’d ever had before. We also got our honeymoon baby out of the deal so that was just the icing on top of the cake.

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Unless you are firm on waiting till marriage i would approach the situation with your future SO as i want to be in a serious committed relationship before giving that piece away worked with my hubby of 6 years 
   Ps dump that “friend”

Too old fashioned??

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