So my husband can’t perform when he knows we are having sex because we “have to” so we can make a baby. I guess it goes to his head and over thinks it... like everything else. So we have to just have sex without saying baby making. I know it sounds weird but it’s a real struggle for him and he doesn’t know why.

Has anyone else had this happen?

And how do you encourage sex on important days during your cycle?

Side note: We never had sex more than 1-3 times a month before we started try so we aren’t the best at this.

Also we are finding that every time we BD it’s the same position same everything.

What do you do to keep it fun?

Thank you in advance for any advice 😊