I’m all for this bdsm but have no idea on how to get connected and never ever have I did it. I realized I like the hard spanking, choking, being tied and bonded and having rough sex and no way to escape when I was 21 lol🤦🏽‍♀️. But now I’m in this relationship and he’s not really into the kink. I’ve only got him to choke me once and on top of that he doesn’t eat pussy and there’s no finger play. I want to be spanked and tied damn it!!!! And in need of a spreader bar