We have been married for a little over 5 years. Before we got married and even a few years after we got married, we would have sex 4 or 5x a day! Our f*****g record was 8x in one day!

Once we got a bit busier we slowed down to about three times a week and definitely 1x.

But tonight we were getting hot and heavy and I was wondering why he was taking so long to do the “deed.” UNTIL I REALIZED he was soft... we were getting at it for about 45 minutes and he still was soft. I was wayyy too tired for this.

Has this ever happened to anyone else?!?

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I was fine for an hour or so and then I started bawling because I felt like he didn’t find me attractive anymore. He was getting it “up” just fine when he was behind me trying to get me in the mood and then when I rolled over he went soft?! I’m so embarrassed 😭