Heartbroken * long read*
Today the worst thing happened that I never though would ever happen. Reality punched me right in the gut again only this time Idk how to get through. My husband and I were living with a family member to help them out and things were ok at first but started getting worse and worse every week. It was agreed on that we could live with them rent free cause I'm a full time nursing student. We did offer to pay at the beginning but they insisted it was ok. We agreed on a few chores here and there to help out. But then my husband and I had to do literally everything for this family member which was ok at first but then the requests started getting insane and things we couldnt do. I have tried on multiple occasions to comprimise and set up outlined boundaries but they would always yell at us so it never happened. I snapped on Friday after coming home and finding that this person yet again moved my stuff completely ruining it and invaded the only room that I consider off limits cause it's my room and has my personal private stuff in it. She had my mom come over and start yelling at my husband and I and refused to talk rationally. Things got heated pretty quick. I'm not saying I'm at all innocent I said things that probably could have been put nicer but everything was so heated then my mom did what she does when she gets heated she slapped me on across the face. It wasnt even the slap that made me angry it was the fact that her and this person practically attacked me but a stair case. Me being 25 weeks was me terrified of falling down the stairs then being slapped then I ran down the stairs and to my husband to get them off me and my mom tried to choke my husband twice while he held her off me. We left a with a majority of our stuff but have no place to live until we can find an apartment. But I have never been so hurt by my family and never imagined this . now I have decisions on who is allowed near my daughter and I'm heartbroken this is how it went down we were trying to leave peacefully but this person has done nothing but lie to everyone about my husband and I and now I habe lost my family. I know I'll be ok but right now I'm lost.
Update: I did report the incident to the police. I'm not pressing charges but we are out and staying at a hotel until we can sign for an apartment there are very few were we are but I cant move to far as I'm in nursing school. Thank you for your input. I will not be letting them near my daughter and I javnt answered any of their messages since the incident.thank you for your support!
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