I need advice.

My partner's behavior turns scary when he thinks I'm cheating or ending the relationship. Last time, he found me walking to work and begged me to take him back while he held me against a wall. He parked by my train station to see me when I got home. He didn't see me, so he called accusing me of cheating with a coworker -- he threatened a coworker at my past job and I can't let him do that at my new one.

Last week, I saw he made a LinkedIn to connect with the CEO and CTO of my company. He said he forgot he did that and deleted the account.

If I block him, he sends emails and uses burner numbers to call/text me hundreds of times a day. The second time I got a restraining order against him, he went to the court first to claim he needed one against me! (His was denied.)

I love him when he's "good" and he is seeing a therapist based on my concerns. But at the end of the day, he's 40 and I'm 23, and I'm just starting my career -- I need to focus on that and my personal growth, not helping a grown man deal with his troubled thinking.

How can I end this as peacefully as possible? 😔