So I’m 25 weeks pregnant and have a daughter as well. Same father only we were broken up for a while and got back together. While we were broken up he didn’t pay child support or anything. And now that I’m pregnant again I told him if we were going to be together he would have to start paying and contributing something for her as up until then I was taking care of all her expenses and the only one taking care of her. Anyway he told me he would and that he was changing for the better, being sober, and really wanted to be a family. I really believed him as he was going to AA, and working. He still barely started giving me money for the daughter we have and he only gave me 200. Which is the only thing he’s ever given me for her, but hey it was a start.

However I caught him messaging other girls and leaving comments on their pictures. Inappropriate comments like “😍😍😉” or messaging them saying they’re hot/ beautiful and should get to know each other. And not like models, like actual women he knows. I left a message to the girls just letting them know about me, but of course I didn’t attack them. He then found out and told me he didn’t remember messaging them or commenting on their pics. That he was probably drunk. I don’t believe him but either way if he was drunk he lied to me about being sober. I’m so done. I told him that I was done giving him any chances to be a family and that he could kiss his kids goodbye if he didn’t get sober. I let him know I had no desire to take his kids from him but that if he were to continue his alcoholic and drug tendencies and not pay child support we would go to court.

I feel so stupid, because I should’ve known people don’t change.

Here’s a conversation between one of the girls and myself. She didn’t even know about me, but I’m glad she was understanding