I don’t have anymore energy for this relationship.

We’re new parents. I’m a stay at home mom and husband works full time. I see other dads work and still come home and play and help with their kids but my husband doesn’t. Our child’s 4 months old and I can count on one hand how many times my husbands fed him. And he changes maybe 4 diapers a week if I’m lucky. We had a long hard emotional talk about it this week and he said it’s hard to help because he’s too tired but he will try. Today he stayed after work for a couple hours just to hang out with friends and I’m just over getting my hopes up for this man to be what he promised he would be.

I love him. I want to have more kids with him. But I’m emotionally drained and I’m tired of fighting for this relationship.