Down in the dumps

Lately I've been having an overwhelming feeling of not being good enough. I feel not smart enough, pretty enough or fit enough and just very insecure. It makes me feel really sad all the time, anytime I see another girl I automatically feel like they're better than me and stuff and idk why it's just really problematic. Maybe it was brought on because I'm struggling in school rn and financially idk. Any advice?? 😢

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Ma

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I feel this way a lot. What helps me is wearing and doing things i’m confident in and going out and just giving other people compliments, uplifting others, hanging out with positive people, etc. I hope this doesn’t sound weird lol

te

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I have had this issue many times. And no matter how many times someone would tell me “you’re so beautiful” I didn’t feel like it. Over the past year, I have gained weight due to my previous birth control. I have felt very self conscious and I just don’t feel as confident/comfortable as I once did. Well, I started eating better and mixing Apple Cider Vinegar in my waters, and I’ve lost 15 pounds so far. I still have ways to go, but I love the fact that I can the weight I’ve lost. Just keep your head up and tell yourself that you’re beautiful. Sometimes it doesn’t help to hear it from other people. I’m in college and I also feel like I’m not smart enough in ways. It really bothers me because I want to succeed. I’ve learned to take a breath and take my time when it comes to studying or taking tests. I have really bad test anxiety. I’ve learned to breathe and not second guess myself. I hope this helps you!