Sensitive issue

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I need some advice on how to approach this. So my long term boyfriend is uncircumcised, no issue, I’ve been in relationships with men who were uncircumcised before.

My issue is I don’t know if he’s aware on how to properly clean “down there”.

I’ve never dealt with a stinky penis but sometimes his really does stink.

Example; we had just gotten out of the shower, and he had a hard on and it turned me on so I was about to go to town and I pulled back his foreskin while we were kissing and I smelled a penisy smell.

Like the smell of his penis before we even got in the shower, was still under his foreskin.

We tend to shower together most times because we have double shower heads so I’m aware that he actually does attempt to clean it.

I don’t have a penis so I can’t say what is right or wrong but from my research you’re supposed to pull back the foreskin while cleaning to get under it. He doesn’t do that.

There have been times were I’ll go to his side and we will get touchy and I will pull his back for him so the water gets to it but most times I’m just focused on cleaning me.

I can’t always be in there to do it for him.

Other times he will smell of urine, which through some research is because he doesn’t pull the skin back a little before peeing so the pee stays trapped in the skin.

He’s got a pretty hefty amount of foreskin as well so it’s often worse.

I need a way to approach him with this issue. It puts me off giving him blowies.

I’m also worried for the future, when we decide to have children if we have a boy the “how to take care of your willy” will be his job and he will be teaching our son his habits. He’s really against circumsizing so it’s unavoidable.

I don’t want to insensitively approach this.

I absolutely do love this man and I’m very afraid of offending him.

He is very sensitive and I know something like this will hurt his feelings, and he would take it to heart.

Any advice?