Haven’t had PP sex...

I’m currently 4 months pp and my husband and I haven’t done the deed since well before we had our daughter. He’s losing his mind in frustration (luckily he’s still being very respectful and understanding) but I can’t blame him. I’m exclusively breast feeding and I’m so touched out from that and my very high need baby who basically has to live on me. We also co sleep because she eats non stop at night and getting up every time would make any sleep impossible. (We plan to get her in her room once the night feeds aren’t necessary/she can soothe herself).

We don’t ever have time away from her since our support system is minuscule and it’s hard to ask for a sitter when it’s not for work. I really hate asking for help as it is because I know those willing to help are already very busy in their own lives.

My husband will try to initiate, but our daughter is always RIGHT THERE. He doesn’t understand that it’s nearly impossible for me to get turned on with her there. My sex drive is basically non existent at this point too.

I know sex isn’t everything and my husband continues to say that so I don’t feel bad, but I want it to be a part of our marriage. I don’t want us to fall apart any more than we already have intimately. Any advice?