Over the weekend my brother in law told me something that took me by shock he admitted he didn’t love his second son like he loves the first. His words were “you just always will love the first more than others”. Now I’m 8 weeks pregnant with me and my husbands first baby together. We both have daughters from previous relationships. Now I’m worried he won’t love this baby like he does his daughter. So my question is it true you don’t love the second the same? Or is that my brother in laws own personal demons?