I’ve been thinking of trying to find a way to tell my dad and aunt. I’m terrified of what they will say about me being pregnant. One thing I hate is being compared to either my brother (who may or may not have done some stuff) or my husbands and my marriage being compared to my dads first marriage. That’s all they’ve talked about recently with the fact that my husband and I are buying a house with an in law suite for my husbands mom and grandmother to move with us. Financially it’s better on them. And all my dad and aunt have to say is how it’s going to ruin our marriage. Here is the thing. Whenever we aren’t working, we are spending time with them! We enjoy that. They are more then just a mom (in law) and Grandmom (in law). They are like friends to us that we enjoy spending our time with too with the benefit of being family! My dads situation was a lot different apparently my grandmother (dads mom) was not an easy person to live with. I am so nervous right now about tomorrow and Friday or Friday and Saturday when I tell them. Because I’m sure I’m going to hear their same opinions again and I’m just DONE with hearing it. And if they do I honestly may blow up at them about it. My husband and I have made our decisions. We have sat and talked about it with his mom and grandmother. If we want alone time we’ll go out. Or they’ll go out for a little. Also the fact that from one end of the house to the other is a very far distance so we would most definitely have our space as well without needing to go out. Every time they’ve said their opinions I have spoken mine and it seems as if they don’t even bother with them. I’m 23 and it feels as if I’m still being treated as if I’m 16. 😡 I could see if I still lived with him but I don’t! I moved out when I was 19. Temporarily moved back when I was 21 for a year when he had surgery on his shoulder. And then moved into my own place with my husband.

My problem is I don’t think i should just come out and say it to my dad. But I also shouldn’t try to make him guess it.

I’m thinking of getting a copy of the blood work results from the doctor I went to this morning and when I see him tell him that I went to the doctor Wednesday morning and they had to do blood work and they found something and hand the papers to him to see them. Also thinking of doing the same with my aunt. But I have no clue. I also could be over thinking their reactions.