How to gently tell my husband...

That he's too rough for me during sex.  We have an amazing relationship, & he's a great man...my only issue is is sometimes during sex I don't think he realizes that he needs to be a bit more gentle. Last night he was fingering my vag & ass while licking me. Which felt amazing but it was a bit forceful haha. I'm comfortable with him,we have been married many years & I know he continues doing it because he thinks I like it....but I just don't want to hurt his feelings 😩 Also I'm 24 weeks pregnant and I think the uncomfortableness has been more so since I've progressed further in my pregnancy.