I swore that if I got my BFP I would let this group know. This was me and my wife’s first time ttc and it worked the FIRST CYCLE. Not saying that this will work for you but if there’s anyway I can help I think it’s by sharing how I achieved it. We did the soft cup method with a known donor. I had been tracking my ovulation with opks for about 3 months before actually trying. I’ve also been taking prenatals for about 2 months before trying as well.

So this last month what we did was inseminated 3 days leading up to ovulation and the day of ovulation leaving nearly exactly 24hrs between each insemination so his swimmers could replenish. I tracked using Clearblue Digital opks and used strip opks to verify ovulation. Before we inseminated, I used preseed about 30 minutes before. Had donor go straight into the cup and then inserted it no more than 5 minutes (mind you all of this was done from donors house to my car, so time is of the essence). Once inserted I made sure I had an orgasm and kept my hips elevated for 30minutes then went about my evening and slept with it in.

During my tww I had NO symptoms so if you don’t have any don’t worry. Mine hit me exactly at 8dpo and I decided to try to test just for the hell of it and got a blazing BFP.

My periods are very regular and I have a 28 day cycle.

I hope this helps someone out in the future, if you have any questions feel free to ask 😊 Baby dust to all ✨👶🏽